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Sunday, June 05, 2005

Ah, That's Sujata!

Last Saturday evening saw a unique get together at my place. My mother's school reunion. Four batch mates who completed school with mom in 1973 were the guests along with their spouses. One of them infact got married (yes, for the first time!) a few weeks ago. This gentleman is credited with being the only person who used to score higher than mom in school. She tried very hard to surpass his scores and win the trophy for the "First Prize" which was bigger than the "Second Prize" she used to get. In the last year, she actually did manage to score better. Unfortunately, that year the school authorities decided to make the trophy smaller. Quite a tragedy.

It was touching to see these people remember the various incidents and people, recreating in their minds the familiar images that were their school days. Grown ups metamorphosising into school kids. The school lane, the small shop near the gate, the strict principal, the brilliant History teacher whose lessons they still haven't forgotten, the shuffling of sections, the cheating in exams...everything was discussed with great excitement. Pregnant silence followed each of these discussions as all of them got lost in their own memories.

Since all the four alumni present were guys (men?), the most happening women in school were also talked about. Their memories were sharpest when it came to recalling their names. Mom had a few pictures from school days and some of these ladies were present in them. It was an amusing sight when balding , pot-bellied men took out their reading glasses to look at the pictures closely. Ah, that's Sujata!

My own images of my school days are beginning to fade. However, seeing mom and her friends recollect happenings from over two decades ago has made me determined to try and organise a reunion of my own schoolmates. Let's hope it happens soon!

21 Comments:

  • awesome post TT! :)
    well, its been 11 years since i set foot into my high school...a set of us joined the 8th there n just a week back one of the guys has sent in a fabulous mail bout what he remembered of the first day!many others followed suit...brought forth a rush of memories! :)

    By Blogger shub, at June 05, 2005 7:14 PM  

  • Brings a soothing smile, feels like reading a euphoric tale.

    A lil story from my side...
    In middle school mom would have a perennial duel with her fellow student, Prakash, over everything ranging from academics to sports. Like little tiddlers vying for candy they’d leave no stone unturned to mark their supremacy over the other. Their score was settled once and forever when Jawaharlal Nehru decided to visit their school. Prakash was to present the prime minister a bouquet and mommie was to garland the politician. Both prided their responsibility till Prakash pinched mom so hard for he was green-eyed at not being able to garland Nehru, a seemingly nobler act. Mommie wailed, but in mirth as she knew she had won the battle, her cerise nipped forearm bearing testimony to her triumph, a day she still cherishes as she narrates to me another one of her nostalgic school time stories.

    Lovely post!!

    By Blogger Self Writeous, at June 05, 2005 9:12 PM  

  • ...Linked you, finally :)

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at June 05, 2005 9:18 PM  

  • First time here. Lovely post I must say. Just before i left India, we had this meeting of all our school friends in our school on a sunday and it was some experience reliving those glory days with the people whom you learnt life with. It is a lovely experience surely . :)

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at June 06, 2005 3:20 AM  

  • cute

    :D

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at June 06, 2005 11:28 AM  

  • Yeah, it is more of an induced effect... the common topic of conversation where all can join in, and of course the much-missed banter which we miss once out of our milieu. Good post, Tipsy-Topsy

    By Blogger Sudipta Chatterjee, at June 06, 2005 12:44 PM  

  • I liked the term Pregnent Silence ...

    even i am struggling hard to be in touch with my school and college mates... thanks to yahoogroups.. there are some email convos floating around...

    By Blogger ~ ॐ ~, at June 06, 2005 12:53 PM  

  • :)

    By Blogger Chugs, at June 06, 2005 2:37 PM  

  • For a moment I thought Writer Sujatha was your mom's classmate, until I came to the last section of your post.

    Even in parties with my colleagues, the most that we talk about is on the fond memories of the past. I can imagine how much of a fun it would be to reminisce with classmates of yesteryears. Surprising your mom is still in touch with few of them.

    I finished my school exactly a decade back, and I have lost touch with all my friends except 1 or 2. Hmmm.. That sets my mind rolling. Maybe I shall arrange for an alumini meet of just my batch

    By Blogger Woodooz, at June 06, 2005 3:55 PM  

  • Shub, wow. must be great to remember all that. i guess we will have an even larger pile considering that most of us were in this school since Nursery :)

    HoH, thank god my mom could prove the point without suffering or causing physical violence!

    Keerthi, thanks. :)

    Rajesh, welcome to the blog and thanks. not only did we learn life with these people but also from these people :)

    By Blogger Tipsy Topsy, at June 06, 2005 7:42 PM  

  • burf, thanks!

    Sudipta, :)

    Prashant, thanks for reminding me. must start a school yahoo group. have one for college though.

    Chugs, :)

    By Blogger Tipsy Topsy, at June 06, 2005 8:00 PM  

  • Somu, the guy's wedding was the catalyst. Old classmates got in touch thru that :)All the best for the alumni meet..hope u do succeed in organising one!

    Deep, yeah..32 years!!! seems unimaginable, doesn't it!

    By Blogger Tipsy Topsy, at June 06, 2005 8:02 PM  

  • Beautifully written! You bet, meeting classmates after *this* long had to be an exciting extravaganza!! Wonder whether would even remember my own details five years from now... forget remembering others'!! :O) May be I'd say.. aah that's TT and then someone will correct, abbey dumbo TT was never our classmate! Duh! :D

    By Blogger Fundoo, at June 07, 2005 12:49 PM  

  • Me too tagged you! Unfortunately, yours is the only link where i havent put the real name... can i write your real name, please? Pretty Please?

    By Blogger Prashanth, at June 07, 2005 8:39 PM  

  • Wowie...hey great fun to meet up school friends after sooo many years...But Alas!!Wot pity...since u went to a girls school no potbellied guy with a reclining hair line is gonna look at your photo after 20 years n say "Ah,thats Tipsy!"

    By Blogger Mystic Bard, at June 08, 2005 2:45 PM  

  • yea, yea the real name, we want the real name :D:D:D

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at June 08, 2005 4:31 PM  

  • first time on ur blog. noce stuff, 21 u aint too old and can remember school life, its not as bad as finishing in 73

    By Blogger ada-paavi!!!!, at June 08, 2005 11:26 PM  

  • Ab ye blog Su-jata ke aage jata kyun nahin? Mahurat chahiye kya nayi post likhne ke liye? x-( Ke phir didi se kahe doon aap ki pitayi ke liye?! :-?

    By Blogger Fundoo, at June 09, 2005 11:38 AM  

  • first time here. really enjoyed reading some of the posts. keep up the good work.

    By Blogger aniket, at June 09, 2005 6:07 PM  

  • lovely post .. your mom's friends were only guys? :)

    By Blogger Argentyne, at June 09, 2005 10:58 PM  

  • Fundoo, do u remember who u are right now? :P

    ST, i know :(

    Burf n Prashanth : nana

    Srivastaven..yeah. definitely not as bad or as remarkable :)

    Aniket, thanks pal!

    CC, hehe. nopes. it just happens that this get-together had only guys. plus the women have married and gone to different places.

    By Blogger Tipsy Topsy, at June 10, 2005 12:27 PM  

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